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Monday, February 10, 2014

6 Attitudes Ladies Should Not Reveal To Men

No one is perfect but we should be able to caution our attitudes sometimes. Not only do guys make mistake with girls,the girls
have their faults too,there are some things that are common with some ladies. Here are some
mistakes ladies should not make with guys :
1. Being too forward: When a guy approaches you, there are reasons to his actions. Its either because he likes you,need an help from you or something else. Girls are fond of saying “he just wants to toast me,that’s all and am not interested,so what’s the point answering him”. Chill girls,some just need your friendship,help etc,try to get his route first,don’t be too forward.
You might be wrong. Just pretend you don’t know that’s the likely thing on his mind. Give him the space to be himself. When you are able to picture his motive then you can try being smart with it.
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2. Drawing conclusions too soon: When a guy asks for a date,we always feel he is going to ask for a romantic relationship at that end,though it is common that way but let’s still honour them if we have the chance to and allow him speak his mind, Maybe he just wants to know you better or start a friendship before speaking his mind. We shouldn’t just tell him to his face that ” I know you brought
me here to tell me you love me,so just start talking” .It shouldn’t be that way,let him have his way as a man because when you tell a man that you know his intentions and he then feels embarrassed about it,he may decide to change it and tell you it was something else, and at the same time you could also be wrong,so its better you let him do the talking and you do the answer.
3. Trying to impress Men: Ladies are fond of impressing guys about their worth,let him find out himself. Humility pays! Don’t flaunt your luxuries at him, he might feel intimidated,and if
you try bragging about it,he would not want to mix up with a lady of pride and such exuberance. Just be a classic woman,let him explore more to find out about you . Don’t piss him off yourself. A
guy wouldn’t want a proud woman in his life. If you are lucky to have all what you need in high taste, just be low about it because men usually observe a ladies attitude from the very moment he sets his eyes on her. Always be real.
4. Being too quick to express your feelings: Am
not saying you shouldn’t express yourself but please be careful about it. Guys have a lot of motives towards girls but yet he remains nice and calm,the kind of guy you want. Don’t get carried
away by his beauty. Yes,we have
handsome,tall,cute guys that you will wish to be around but not all have good intentions. Not all are meant for you too. Don’t quote me wrong. He might just need your body or your love. Try finding out well before showing that you admire him. Hmmmmn,from experience,it is still preferable for a guy to express his likeness first.
Its not a matter of African mentality but we still have guys that will take advantage of you if you show too much. Well,its your choice to flaunt it all at him. Remain reserved. You can only express freely when there is something going on already.
5.Telling him your problems: Some ladies now feel its so comfortable to tell a guy about their problems on the first date. The fact is that some girls do it to get a quick cash from men while some can be real. Since guys have the mentality that you are only trying to get their money,he
would either believe you and spend it or promise and fail you. Some guys now judge all girls as the same likewise girls,so no matter what you say or do,he still feels you are up to something. So be careful how and when you relate your issues so as not to push him off.
6. Acting like a flirt: Some girls now think that the
best and fastest way to get a guy is being hot and sexy. Wearing dresses that shows off too much and acting like a bitch around him. Stop that! Keep your dignity for someone special. Stop flaunting it at all guys. They would get a wrong signal and flow with you that way. They would see you as a cheap girl. Be modest in dressing, speech etc. There is one special guy out there that would love your simplicity and love you that way.
Well,I don’t expect all girls to be in support of these because many believe in dressing and looking hot and the likes. This is for ladies who believe in self worth and practice it that way.
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#SURULERE - Patience is Virtue [MUST READ]

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SURULERE is now what is trending in Nigeria ever since Dr Sid released his single titled SURULERE and since then I have always wanted to write an article relating to the title of the song.

SURULERE - Patience is Virtue


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Patience is very important because good things  in life don't come easily and  it only take the power of those who have patience to wait and receive the good things. Don't also  forget that all good things come to those who wait for it.

Do you know that Life can be funny atimes? In such a way that the older you grow, the more the challenges and difficulties you encounter. At this point in time, patience even becomes more important/vital but funny enough human beings becomes less patient. Persistence is what makes the impossible possible.

In situations where you find things very difficult, it is very important to exercise patience. There are loads of things in this life that takes time to build/yield or to grow just like the various businesses we engage in. Everybody goes into one  business or the other with profit motive but just because the business is not yielding or not growing fast doesn't mean it won't later.

One just need to be focused and determined. A writer once said that pleasure isn't enjoyable without the pain, so we have to be patient and endure our lives and accept our situations to be able to experience the bliss that we so rightfully deserve.


Vic Lawrence at selfgrowth.com says the most basic reasons for impatience are lack of control, lack of understanding, lack of planning, lack of communication and unrealistic expectations. When you claim control of these issues you can claim the rewards that patience can deliver.

What is it that you are going through? Do you feel bad when you see or hear about people achievements? Is there something you've been expecting to materialized all these while and it hasn't ? My dear brothers and sisters, the fact that  these people are there before you doesn't mean you won't get there or the fact that things you expected to have materialized hasn't doesn't mean it won't  . Why must you underestimate yourself? Why must you look around for shortcuts?


I see life to be a racing ground. You fight to the finish line without committing fouls. The fact that someone gets to the finish line before you doesn't mean you won't get to the finish line so far you take to the racing rules and regulations of the race which having patience as the number one (1) rule.

Overtaking those ahead of you is also allowed. Never think because you ahead of some people, they can never surpass you or do better than you. They can meet you at the same spot and leave you at that same spot. One needs to be careful in life. No place is guaranteed for ever, life is just for the main time.

 Just that in this type of race, you don't compete with anybody because competing with anyone in this life will only make someone to go into things you wouldn't want to go into on a normal day. You would do anything just to win be it good or bad way and it might not end well. Patience is very important in life because when we try to make things happen by all means in life, we put a lot of stress on ourselves.

A writer once said," Life is not about living in the future or in the past. Life is about accepting the present moment. With unlimited patience we can accept any circumstance and are truly free. We are in need of nothing and are happy just to be as we are".


By the way, that's 9ja Ninja in the picture above.

Employ patience in your life today and experience a big transformation... SURULERE oooo.

Regards
OgbeniAkinremi - @OGBENIAKINREMI @RHRAYHYM



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Tuesday, February 4, 2014

24 Ways To Win A Nigerian Girls Heart [MUST READ]


Please dont try it with foreign girls only Nigerian Girls.

1. When she asks how she looks, shrug and say "could be better." This will keep her on her toes, and girls love that.

2. Never hold her hand. This can be interpreted as a sign of weakness. If she grabs your hand, squeeze hers really, really hard until she cries. This will impress her by showing her what a strong man you are.

3. Once a month sneak up on her from behind and knock her over. Girls are like dogs. They love to be roughed up.

4. Call her in the middle of the night to ask if she's sleeping. If she is, say "you better be." Repeat this 4 or 5 times until morning. This will show her you care.

5. When she is upset about something, suggest to her that it might be her fault. This will pave the way for her own personal improvement, and every girl needs some improvement.

6. Recognize the small things; they usually mean the most. Then when she's sleeping, steal all her small things and break them. Because jewelry is for wussies and Asian ladies.

7. If you're talking to another girl, make sure she's looking. When she is, stare into her eyes, mouth the words 'john tesh you,' and grab the other girl's backside. Girls love competition.

8. Tell her you're taking her out to dinner. Drive for miles so she thinks it's going to be really special. Then take her to a burning tire yard. When she starts to get upset tell her you were just kidding and now you're really going to take her to dinner. Then drive her home. When she starts crying and asks why you would do something like that lean over and whisper very quietly into her ear ", because I can."

9. Introduce her to your friends as "some chick". Women love those special nicknames.

10. Play with her hair. Play with it HARD.

11. Warm her up when she's cold,  but not by giving her your jacket, because then you might get cold. Rather, look her in the eye and say, "If you don't stop pinkberrying about the cold right now, you're going to be pinkberrying about a black eye." The best way to get warm is with fear.

12. Take her to a party. When you get there she'll have to go to the bathroom (they always do). Leave immediately. Come back right when the party's dying and yell at her the whole way home for ditching you at the party.

13. Make her laugh. A good way to do this is if she has a small pet. Kick the pet. I always find stuff like that funny. Why shouldn't girls?

14. Let her fall asleep in your arms. When she's fast asleep, wait 10 minutes then JUMP UP AND SCREAM IN HER EAR! Repeat until she goes home and you can use your arms for more important things. Like basketball.

15. Spit often. I hear girls like guys that spit.

16. If you care about her, never ever tell her. This will only give her self confidence. Then you can never turn her into the object she deep down desires to be.

17. Every time you're in her house steal one of the following: shoes, earrings, or anything else that comes in pairs. Only take one of the pair. This way she'll go crazy.

18. Take her out to dinner. Right when she's about to order interrupt and say "No, she's not hungry". Make her watch you eat. Girls love a guy that speaks for her.

19. Look her in the eyes and smile. Then clock her one. Girls love a spontaneous guy.

20. Give her one of your t-shirts,  and make sure it has your smell on it. But not a sexy cologne smell. A bad smell. You know what I'm talking about.

21. If you're listening to music, and she asks to hear it, tell her no. This way she'll think you're mysterious.

22. Remember her birthday, but don't get her anything. Teach her material objects aren't important. The only thing that's important is that she keeps you happy. And your happiness is the greatest present she can ever get.

23. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it. Then next time you know she's coming over on a trash day leave the trash can open and have the present visibly sticking out of the can. Girls actually don't like this one that much, but I think it's funny.

24. If she's mad at you for not calling her when you say you will, promise her that you will call her at a certain time of the day. This will ensure that she waits by the phone. Tell her when you call you're going to tell her a special surprise. Now she'll be really excited. Now don't call. That's also quite funny!

Please do this and save your relationship. #Okbye

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The Feminine Gender – What Are They After, Money Or Love?

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Guys have you ever asked yourselves what the feminine gender of these days are really into; either money or love? If yes, then our thinking is alike.

Ladies,It is of no doubt that love and money go along with each other,but ask yourselves, which comes first- money or love? Do money stimulate love or love first then money?
There used to be a time when Ladies date guys regardless of their status or the statement of account. During those period, ladies are said to date blindly. Sometimes I just wished I was born in those era.
Please don’t get me wrong, I am not saying ladies of now a days prefer money to love. In fact who doesn’t like money? Who doesn’t want comfort? Who doesn’t want to live big? We all want these.
According to a statistics I saw on google few months ago,it was revealed that 65 percent of ladies around the world date because of money while 35 percent wants to be independent regardless of the statement or status of their boo.
These days,ladies use money as overriding criteria for choosing their partners. If you have a girl who is dating you because of who (personality) you are and not because of what (position) you are,my brother keep am well ooo.
So many ladies have lost their lives, morals and ways as a result of love for money. There is this popular saying among the ladies that “Forget about Love and Think about money”.
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No doubt I can’t allow my sister to marry a poor guy because I believe you should be able to or let me say you should be ready to carry on responsibilities as a man of the house before getting married. Marriage is not something you can just jump into. I will make her understand that money comes after love. I will also instill love of herself in her and not the love of money.
Mistakes I think guys make is that, they procreate when they are still trying to meet both ends meet. Giving birth is a blessing but my brother, why not play safe until you have that money to carter for the baby and the mama. Nigeria economy is not friendly with such thing.
The essence of this short piece of article is to charge our ladies and also change their believes about money and love and also to let them no that love is paramount in all situation.
No doubt money is very much essential in every relationship. But my dear ladies, bear with guys like me who is still struggling to make both ends meet. Love come first and money comes after. That Is the way I think it suppose to be.

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Friday, December 6, 2013

Femme Diaries: Ocean Blue (Curious Love)


I looked into the same page like i had done a hundred times already. Hoping my tired brain cells would grasp something this time. I wasn't even sure I could register looking at letters, talk more of words or sentences. Philosophy was a boring course to read and this mental exhaustion only meant I needed a break. The problem was getting someone to watch over my seat and the secluded area of the library I sat offered no respite for that. My table usually for four was occupied by only me, the nearest person was two tables away and zoned off on his iPad . I dropped my head to the table, determined to rest my brain nonetheless. I didn't know how many minutes had passed until someone tapped my table, I raised my head to see the most beautiful pair of blue eyes in the world. "Hello, is this seat taken?" she asked pointing at the empty seat opposite me. "No, you can take it" I replied as the slightly-older, super light-skinned female that proceeded to sit opposite me came into full view. Instantly i felt the intimidated by this woman's larger than life presence. This woman's beauty was unreal. She wore a black jumpsuit. The "v" at the neck of the jumpsuit was so low, when she bent to seat i was looking straight into the nakedness of her light-skinned breasts. She sat down and drew out some study catalogues and her MacBook laptop. Rich girl alert!

"You're staring" she said after a while without raising her gaze, snapping me out of the same trance her presence put me In. "Uhn?" I replied with a low giggle, trying to sound surprised. She dropped her catalogue and looked up "You're staring, that's discomforting. If you want to ask me something just ask. Staring is rude" she added then went back to her books. The confidence in her words struck me first the rest of it just seemed to whiz by my hearing. "Urmm.. Ha.. I'm sorry" I said blushing and pulling the hair on my face to the back of my ears. " it's....just your eyes" I said finally. "What about it?" She replied without meeting my gaze which for some desperate reason I needed her to do. " it's blue contact lens obviously, got anything else to ask there Sherlock?" She said without flinching. I was startled by her quick and composed response and mostly belittled, still   i was un-insulted. I didn't shake my stare either. I just sat there star struck staring uncontrollably. After a while of silence she spoke again "Okay, sorry if I sounded rude, my name is Anna" I just smiled in response, looking into her blue eyes. 

Over the next 30 minutes, in library-whispers we exchanged enough information about each other to have a proper conversation, without me staring or saying something stupid like I did around really cute guys. She was a masters student from Babcock University doing study research in U.I. She had been in Ibadan all week, it was her last day. Confidence aside, i like to pretend i was a good judge of character so she immediately struck me as an intelligent person. After exhausting small talk data to exchange about each other, I tried to study again. Burying my face once more in my notes, as my brain scrambled into sanity. I finally felt myself assimilating, I raised my gaze to look around the library wing when I saw her staring. I blushed and dropped my face back to my books. I felt very weird. I could still feel her staring, it was like she was looking into my soul. "You're cuter when you're serious" she said after a while. "What?" I chuckled failing woefully at avoiding the blush forming on my cheeks. "You heard me babe" she replied now looking back into her notes. "Babe?..,Are you flirting with me or am I hearing this wrong?" I replied furiously blushing. She narrowed her eyes on my face again. "Hey I'm starving, lets get out of here. I heard Ibadan has KFC now, lets grab lunch" she said suddenly totally ignoring my question. At this point the weirdness I was feeling made my knees ache. " urrm, I would come with you but I have to finish these notes" I replied avoiding her gaze, "it's just lunch Bimbo, I didn't ask you to marry me" she said standing up up pack her books. I chuckled looking around the empty library wing "Who makes a marriage inference with a fellow girl?" I asked. She narrowed her gaze to my chest level and returned to my face with a grin "Well I do" she said turning to leave. "You coming? I'm paying". 



Thanks for reading another page out of  the Femme Diaries of Bimbo Davies. The second part of this story will come online later today.



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Wednesday, November 20, 2013

10 Advantages Of Being Single (READ)


You are single, right? You've got all your friends forcing you to someone, anyone. Don't mind them just yet cos we've got 10 solid reasons why you should just remain single, at least for now.

#1 You Would Rather Hang With Friends

You love your group of friends and see them as much as possible. If you don't feel the need to change the way you interact socially with other people, a significant other might complicate things. Consider this, the time you spend with your friends will now be split among your new partner, and his/her friends. You might only see your buds a 1/3 of the time you did before. Are you ready for that?

#2 It's All About You

Sometimes the best thing for your future relationship is that present day you focuses on itself. Sure, you may be out of college, but are you actually in the "real world" yet? Are you happy with your life, or are you hoping a relationship will fix that for you? If so, you're not ready. Be fair to your next bf and only put yourself out there when you know you're ready.

#3 Career First

Whether you're in college or just out of grad school, it's paramount that you keep focus on your goals and ambitions. If you're not where you want to be yet, or at the very least on that path, you're not your best you. Obviously, success is relative, but you'll know what's right for you.

#4 Playing The Field

Has it ever occurred to you that perhaps you're not ready to pick just one? This is a completely fair, and all to often never asked question. But if you're not ready to settle down, take this time to date around and figure out what it is you are looking for

#5 Move Around As You Please

One of the less hyped benefits of single life is the ability to move around whenever you like. Whether you're looking to relocate apartments, or states, this is all 100% up to you. If your job takes you somewhere else, you can pick up and go without hesitation. This is something you'll appreciate later on in life.

#6 Keep Your Routine

If you're accustomed to doing things a certain way, you'll probably want to continue that trend. From what side of the bed you sleep on, to the time you have dinner at, these are all things that are seemingly unimportant, but still relevant to how you live your life. Unless you're ready to make some big compromises, a relationship is not for you.

#7 Love Hurts

Lets be honest, for every happy couple in love, there are two people elsewhere miserably heartbroken. But that's how love works, it's high risk, high reward. We're not saying it's not worth the reward, simply that you should be prepared for the risk as well. It's not all rainbows and kisses.

#8 Save Money First

Being in love is expensive. Not only are you obliged to do "stuff", but it's harder to do the things you normally do to save a few bucks. Do you really want to have your bf over for a ramen date? How many times can you woo him with your famous generic sauce pasta? Surely you wont just expect him to pick up the bill, at least you shouldn't. Use these formative years as an opportunity to save up for whatever you do later on in life.

#9 What About Some "me" Time?

From bubble baths, to pigging out on pizza while watching Golden Girls in bed, we all have our sacred rituals we can only enjoy alone. Consider this, when you finally settle down with Mr./Mrs. Right, your alone time will slowly decrease, culminating in the eventual replacement by family time. Enjoy it while it lasts.

#10 It's Just Not For You

Finally, you may just wake up one day and realize that no matter how much you've been told differently, relationships are not for everyone, and certainly not for you. Maybe our role as human beings is evolving. With the world's over population, is it really so bad if not everyone procreates? Maybe single life is simply a new form of commitment. Perhaps in this brave new world, one can commit to happiness, self-love, and independence, without the fear of judgement.

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Saturday, November 16, 2013

The 10 Deadliest Animals in the World [READ]

We humans are constantly putting in efforts to make a better and safer life for ourselves, but the world remains a dangerous place. As for wild animals, what determines their danger level might not necessarily be size.
We may think of some of these animals as friendly or harmless, but sometimes even “friendly” or docile-seeming species can become dangerous if provoked.
Here is a list of the top 10 most dangerous animals on earth, beginning with number 10.

10. Hippopotamus


A hippopotamus is seen in a pond at the Zoological Park in New Delhi, June 2009 (Raveendran/AFP/Getty Images)
Hippos are usually found in Africa and are responsible for more human fatalities on the continent than any other large animal. Male and female hippos tend to have different reasons for attacking. A male hippo will defend its territory, which runs along the bank of a river or lake, whereas the female becomes aggressive in defending her young.
A hippo can weigh as much as 8,000 pounds, with an average weight of about 3,500 pounds. It can run at speeds of 20 miles per hour, and its mouth can open up to 4 feet high. Its mouth can be used to crush like a sledgehammer.

9. Australian Box Jellyfish



The Indo-Pacific or Australian box jellyfish (Chironex fleckeri) is the most poisonous marine animal known to mankind, and its sting can kill a human. It can be found in Australia’s northern oceans and throughout the tropical Indo-Pacific. It has up to 60 tentacles, each growing as long as 15 feet. The tentacles are covered in cnidocysts, and each cnidocyst is equipped with a tiny needle and a load of toxin that, added together, could kill 50 people.
Most people survive an encounter with this jellyfish, but the pain is excruciating. It can stop a person’s heart or paralyze the person and cause drowning. Reports say this creature causes over 100 deaths a year, but records are sketchy. Reporting jellyfish deaths is not required by many countries, and many areas don’t want to publicize the presence of deadly jellyfish for fear of affecting tourism.

8. Great White Shark


A Great White shark jumps out of the water as it hunts Cape fur seals near False Bay off the coast of South Africa. (Carl De Souza/AFP/Getty Images)
Averaging 15 feet long, with rows of up to 300 sharp serrated teeth inside powerful 4-foot-wide jaws, the great white shark is comfortably at the top of the food chain. It eats a wide variety of species and isn’t too picky, but humans are not preferred, being leaner and bonier than its favorite prey—the fattier seals and sea lions.
Research shows that sharks explore objects with their mouths and will normally “test bite” something to see what it is. Many attacks on humans are thought to simply be these test bites. In the majority of cases, after the initial bite, the shark will retreat, though unfortunately, that first bite can often kill a person.
Of the more than 100 shark attacks every year, one-third to one-half are by great whites, and most of these are not fatal.

7. Grizzly Bear


A grizzly bear and her cub are seen near Trout Creek at the Yellowstone national park, July 1964. (Bryan Harry/Yellowstone National Park).
The grizzly bear is a color variation of the brown bear of North America. Grizzlies can reach a weight of 400 to 800 pounds, with the male being nearly twice as heavy as the female. When standing on its hind feet, it can reach up to 8 feet tall. Despite its huge size, it can run at speeds up to 35 miles per hour. The most common reason for a grizzly attack is a female fearing for her cubs. Hungry or ill bears may also attack humans.

6. Cape Buffalo


A Cape Buffalo is seen in the Masai Mara Game Reserve, Kenya, December 2007. (Dan Kitwood/Getty Images)
The Cape buffalo, found in Africa, is sometimes called “black death,” being one of the most dangerous animals on land. It is extremely aggressive and unpredictable. It can weigh between 900 to 1800 pounds, and except for some lone bulls, this bovine species is very gregarious. Herd members are quick to defend each other from lions, crocodiles, or hunters, by ramming the predator with their sharp horns. Sometimes a wounded bull will circle around to ambush its hunter from behind. This species kills over 200 people a year.

5. Elephant


An elephant is seen at the wildlife sanctuary in Udawalawe National Park, Sri Lanka, November 2012 (Lakruwan Wanniarachchi//AFP/Getty Images)
The elephant, the largest land mammal, lives in Africa and some parts of Asia. Normally viewed as friendly, elephants have sometimes been known to exhibit unpredictable behavior and attack without warning. Occasionally there have been reports of a captive elephant that, after years of affectionate behavior toward a keeper, will suddenly attack the person. An elephant’s legs, trunk, and weight can crush just about anything, and one moment of anger can be lethal.
Wild elephants sometimes enter villages and do damage or crush people, and a person can also be trampled inadvertently by a herd moving past. Around 500 people die by elephants every year.

4. Crocodile


A Saltwater Crocodile at the Australian Reptile Park in Sydney, January 2006. (Ian Waldie/Getty Images)
The saltwater crocodile is the largest reptile in the world. The saltwater and Nile crocodiles are the most dangerous, killing hundreds of people a year. The crocodile lives throughout the tropics of Africa, Asia, the Americas, and Australia in slow-moving rivers and lakes. It eats a wide variety of animals, living and dead. Its eyes, ears, and nostrils are located high on the head, which allows a crocodile to see and hear its prey. It ranges from 5 to 20 feet long.
The saltwater crocodile is powerful and fast, and its jaws can apply 3,000 pounds of pressure per square inch. Crocodiles kill up to 800 people every year.

3. African lion


A lion is seen in a zoo in Gelsenkirchen, Germany, August 2011(Patrik Stollarz/AFP/Getty Images)
The African lion has amazing speed, razor sharp claws, and teeth to attack its prey. It hunts in groups and stalks its prey before attacking, running in bursts of up to 50 miles per hour. The females usually do the hunting and stalk zebras, wildebeest, and Cape buffalo. The male rarely joins the hunt, being too busy protecting the pride. This dangerous animal has attacked people on farms and in cars at African Safaris; it has attacked trainers in circuses, zookeepers, and people keeping lions as pets. Lions cause hundreds of fatalities a year.

2. Snake


A deadly Eastern Brown Snake is seen in Australia. In a single bite the snake can deliver enough venom to kill 20 adults. (William West/AFP/Getty Images)
Many species of snakes are dangerous to humans. More than 450 species are venomous, and 250 are capable of killing a person. Most venomous bites occur in Africa, Asia, and North America.
The Carpet Viper causes most of the snakebite deaths worldwide. Its poison can keep the victim’s blood from coagulating, and the person can bleed to death. The Taipan or fierce snake is the most venomous snake in the world, but there have been no fatalities. Antivenom is available, and the “fierce snake” is actually rather docile and reclusive, and lives in a remote area in Australia where few people encounter it.

1. Mosquito


A mosquito sits on a stick in Martinez, California. Mosquitoes make number one on the list of deadliest animal in world. (Justin Sullivan/Getty Images)
Mosquitoes make number one on the list of deadliest animal in world. This small blood-sucking insect kills over a million people each year worldwide. It can spread diseases, most notably malaria. It can also spread elephantiasis, yellow fever, and West Nile virus. Mosquitoes are found in abundance in tropical areas and can also survive the winter in countries with lower temperatures such as Canada.
Depending on how you look at the statistics, other animals could have also made this list. Among them are the poison dart frog, the Brazilian wondering spider, the scorpion, and the Komodo dragon.
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Tuesday, November 5, 2013

SIGNS: You Are Too Gay If.... (READ)

SO, you want to know if you are gay or TOO gay, right? Here goes our 11 signs to know if you are TOO gay.
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You are TOO GAY....:

1. If you have a place in your dresser just for your collection of hot pants.

2. If you make a point to hang on members of the same gender even if you're not interested in or attracted to them.

3. If all of your friends can only be of the opposite gender.

4. If you refuse to wear it if it's not a designer brand.

5. If you're obsessed with a pop diva like Britney Spears or Katie Perry.

6. If Glee is your favorite show...

7. Gossip is your main form of communication and you have trouble having a conversation without it.

8. If you love shopping and trying on clothes more than anything in the world.

9. If you believe a good glass or bottle of wine can make anything better.

10. If you enjoy being promiscuous and dislike the idea of commitment

11. If you hate roughing it out and always want comfort.

Sunday, October 27, 2013

25 Awkward Phobias You Never Heard About (READ)

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Phobia as defined by Google is 'an extreme or irrational fear of or aversion to something'.
Even though phobias are almost countless, there are some that are out-rightly awkward or odd. Listed below is our list of 25 most awkward phobias.


  1. Ablutophobia – fear of bathing, washing, or cleaning
  2. Chaetophobia – fear of hair
  3. Decidophobia – fear of making decisions
  4. Friggatriskaidekaphobia, paraskavedekatriaphobia, paraskevidekatriaphobia – fear of Friday the 13th
  5. Erotophobia – fear of sexual love or sexual abuse
  6. Gynophobia – fear of women
  7. Atychiphobia – fear of failure
  8. Koumpounophobia - fear of buttons
  9. Panphobia – fear of everything or constant fear of an unknown cause
  10. Papaphobia – fear of the Pope
  11. Somniphobia – fear of sleep
  12. Technophobia – fear of technology 
  13. Phobophobia – fear of having a phobia or of fear
  14. Amychophobia – fear of being scratched
  15. Hexakosioihexekontahexaphobia - Fear of the number 666

16.   Peladophobia -  Fear of Bald people
17.   Bibliophobia.- Fear of Books
18.   Omphalophobia - Fear of Belly buttons
19.   Alektorophobia - Fear Chickens
20.   Cyberphobia - Fear of computers
21.   Medorthophobia - Fear of Erect penis
22.   Philemaphobia or Philematophobia - Fear of Kissing
23.   Menophobia -Fear of  Menstruation
24.   Kathisophobia - Fear of Sitting down
25.   Oneirogmophobia - Fear of Wet dreams


VERDICT: Truth be told, almost evry human being, male or female has one or more phobias. The most common one is the Fear of Failure (Atychiphobia).

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Tuesday, October 22, 2013

READ: Surviving The Twilight (Part 3)


NB: This is the final story in a three-part series. Please click Here to read the previous parts 

5:30 - I pulled onto the express again racing toward a private beach, I knew a couple of dealers there, but they only sell the soft stuff, not the heroin or cocaine my wife was addicted to, but maybe they could give me information or probably even sighted her. I arrived at the beach a few minutes later and it was deserted, I had somehow forgot the time of the day and figured the dealers would probably be asleep. They say love adds the mumu factor, I honestly just saw the truth to that.  I drove out of the beach and made 3 more stops  around places I felt she could have gone.  With no luck anywhere i see the morning twilight graze the early morning sky, in its beauty. I feel my sanity slipping away from me, all we had to do was survive this twilight, day break will come soon, I prayed.  How am I still  in love with this bundle of work I call a wife? Any man should have backed off, packed his bags and run. How can i tolerate all of Victoria's habits without question? Her drug use habit for one is  so bad it has threatened  the lives of her and everyone around her, to the tiniest fabrics of their being. We have both lost friends and family because of her drug addiction. Her father hasn't asked after us in years, he specifically blames Vicky's drug addiction on her marrying me and her refusal to marry the person she had been betrothed to. The worst part of all this is that in the long run I'm giving out so much love and taking a chance on someone that may never fully reciprocate, understand or feel the same way for me. I think it's true what they say that love is for the insane.


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6:45- My heart says a silent prayer as I drive by a Catholic Church. If God is there he'd have mercy on me in the pureness of my heart and Intentions. It's nothing religious. As i continue my drive on the goose chase journey to no where, i approach a traffic light and hear my phone beep of a received text. I silently prayed it was something positive though I wasn't expecting anyone to call me with good news. I picked up my phone to see a Debit Alert, i hissed and was about to toss the phone on the passenger seat when it hit me. I hadn't done any bank transaction that morning. Vicky was with my wallet and in it were my ATM cards if i was receiving any bank alerts it means she just recently used my bank card and the best part these texts came with the location of where the transaction took place. The moment I saw moment i read the location as "First Bank/Obalende" I knew exactly where she was. I returned to the express gunning for a rough neighbourhood close to the 3rd mainland bridge. 

We stopped at a building there once after returning from a friend's party from the mainland. Funny story that day, she had pulled me into the neighbourhood and said a woman there sold her fresh water fish, she couldn't get anywhere else on the island. Of course it brought a curious thought to my mind because Victoria rarely cooked, but like i said earlier, love lets  you acknowledge your stupidities but never let's you fully accept the reality. So I parked In front of the white building that simply read "Cold Room Here", just right beside the building was a First Bank branch, where she  used my ATM card that fateful day. She walked into the building and I sat in the car and waited. Time flies quickly when you're playing Angry Birds, I looked up a few minutes  later and realised she had been gone 30minutes. After awhile I got out of the car and walked Into the building. There was a garage-style stall open, freezers left and right in the stall, but no sign of Vicky. I walked further into the shop calling out, eventually a light skinned man came out from an inner room he spoke in an heavily Igbo-accented pidgin "Yes who you dey find?". 
"A woman, My wife she entered  inside this place to buy fresh fish or something like that" I replied confused. He paused and looked into my eyes like he was trying to see through me "fresh fish?" he chuckled" "abi na your wife be Vicky?" I nodded   " Una and this una Oyinbo, dey there dey nod like lizard. Any how sha follow me" he waved his hands in the direction of the inner room he just came from and I followed him. I entered the poorly lit room and found her sprawled on the floor. Her eyeballs rolled back into her eye sockets revealing only her white  sclera. One wrist tied with a tiny rope, the other holding on to an empty syringe. She was barely conscious, her laboured and forced breathing was the only thing that confirmed she was still alive. That was the third time I had seen her like that so my panic was controlled, but I will never forget the "fresh fish" ruse, I still laugh about it even. 

7:45 "Oga carry your wife Comot here, I wan go back sleep" I heard the accented Igbo voice and snapped out of my momentary trance. I picked my wallet and cards scattered on the floor, slowly lifted Victoria and carried her in my arms towards by car. I laid her in the passenger seat and belted her in and kissed her forehead 

8:30am-  "I'm thirsty I need water" I heard a voice from beside me. She was finally awake, I had been driving for almost 45 minutes. "Hey, how do you feel?" I replied. "Fine" she answered and sat up. We made a stop at a store to get water and continued the drive. After a while of silence as we approached home she spoke "Why do you put up with me?" She asked almost sobbing. I smiled and looked at her over my shoulder "I guess that's what people do when they're In love" i replied and shrugged. "I'm sorry I am such a mess, I'm sorry I'm such a screw up, I'm sorry and I'm ready to make this work" she said in between sobs "and i love you, always had, always will" she added with tears trickling down her cheeks and reached across and gave a soft on my cheek. "I love you too" I replied simply and focused on the road, I was afraid saying anything else would ruin the moment. Her Visa Application interview was at 11:00am hopefully her high would have worn off  and she would be sober enough for the interview . My brother in America had promised to get her into a rehab centre in America and I am willing to send her there and give us another chance at a proper married life. Despite all this craziness, I haven't given up yet.

 On the radio I could hear New Day by Alicia Keys playing in the background, I turned it up, smiled and thought to myself "Perfect".

The End 

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Monday, October 21, 2013

READ: Surviving The Twilight (Part 2)


This is the 2nd part of these story. Click Here To Read the previous part of this story 

5: 00- I pulled on to the Lekki - Ajah expressway, with no idea of where i might be heading, where to start to look for my wife. Calling her was obviously not an option, her 4th phone this month was missing again. Heading no where in search of her is not the worst that we have been in our marriage though, but last night had been amazing for both of us. We had gone out to dinner at a a Chinese cuisine somewhere on the island and returned home to amazing sex we rarely even had anymore despite being married for just 4 years. Why is this happening now. For the past few months, I have succeeded in shielding her from herself, keeping money away from her, so she can't buy more drugs. I've been basically  helping her help herself. Last night however I had been too tired to put my wallet, or my ATM cards away and now she is on the loose again. I drove into the familiar parking lot of the 1004 building, I know she has a customer here, I have driven her here myself once when she had a craving episode so bad I was convinced she was going to die. I walked toward the building and prayed the elevators were working, I couldn't imagine wasting time climbing the flight of stairs, especially if at the long run she isn't here. I got to the front of flat and knocked a couple of times before someone answered  "who are you?" A female voice came from behind the door. 
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"I need to see Mex is he awake, it's really urgent?" I quizzed. 
"That doesn't answer my question Mr Oyinbo, drop the accent and answer me, who are you?" She replied and still she didn't open the door.
I almost chuckled, I had tried so much to lose my British accent and somehow she could still hear it from behind the door. "Tell him it's Vicky's Husband". There was a silent pause for a bit, a few minutes later she opened the door slightly without releasing the latch, and asked "are you alone?" I nodded slightly. The door opened and the woman with the voice stood there topless with a cigarette between her fingers, I didn't even notice I was staring until she snapped at me "What? Never seen boobies before? Are you coming in or what?" She turned and walked back into the flat calling out at Mex with every stride and leaving me to shut the door myself. I followed closely behind and stood still surveying the living room, everything seemed in order except the air that smelt like stale  marijuana smoke and burnt chocolate. No sign of Vicky. Mex seems to have made a proper living for himself with his type of job in a country like Nigeria. I heard approaching footsteps, a moderately large man walked into the living room. "Bayo, i thought you didn't use?" He coughed out. I cleared my throat, "I don't Meks..". He sniffed then gave a throaty laugh "then why are you in my house at 5' in the morning, dressed in your pyjamas looking like shit?,  anyways no judgement, what can I give you pills, powder or crystal?, Vicky owes me $18000 by the way, roughly about 2.7m naira give or take" he added casually as  my eyes widened in horror. I thought I was going to have a cardiac arrest "why would you let her leave with so much stuff you buffoon?" I asked hoping I don't burst a vein open in my head.  "Hey-hey family guy watch the lingo" He sniffed again and wiped his nose with the back of his hand. "They always come back when they have so much of the good stuff, I figured one day I'd refuse to give her anymore shit until she settled the debts, she'd definitely  get desperate enough to pay off the old one for new shit and if that don't happen, I send my boys after her." He sniffed again then continued  "So why are you here? I need to get back to sleep." 
"I can't find Vicky, been looking for her all morning, I thought she came by here for a hit" I said almost whispering.  He looked at me sternly then spoke "ahh, can't help you there bra, I haven't seen her in weeks, thought she left the country even" he sounded almost genuinely concerned.  "Thanks I should be on my way, text me an account number, I'll settle Vicky's debts before today runs out"
I stood up and motioned to leave. "Better do Bayo, or I'll find you and fuck up your life" he said in all seriousness like he was allowing the new information settle in, paused then gave out another loud laugh "I'm kidding, I love you both, but pay me though, I don't want to go all gangster on you. And by the way lose the fucking accent, who you dey form for?" I nodded, turned  around and walked out of the apartment.

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